Try one of these methods: "To clean hardened wax off of candlesticks, place the candlesticks inside the freezer for an hour or more. Remove candlesticks and the frozen wax should easily peel off. Wash and dry candlesticks. If you're pressed for time, run the candlesticks under very hot water, cover your hand with a soft towel and gently push hot wax off the candlestick." The first one, the freezer, has always worked for me. Then just polish the candlestick with silver polish or toothpaste or symachrome. http://ezinearticles.com/?7-Spotless-Holiday-House-Cleaning-Tips&id=389220